Advice On Sex To Repair Your Relationship

When a relationship has gone bad things can be tough on both parties involved. It can be worst than being married and quite lonely at the same time. Perhaps you're thinking that in order to save your relationship you need to “spice up your sex life.” If so, you may want to think this over again.

Take in consideration this advice when the thinking is to use sex as a way to repair your relationship.

Remember the old cliche that if you have great sex that your partner will never leave? Forget about it! Unless, of course, your mate happens be an adolescent, or someone that act like one, sex alone won't get it done – keep the relationship strong and vibrant. There are many components involved that make up a good adult relationship.

So until you can get in sync with some of those levels, and not just sex, you'll continue to struggle and in all likelihood fail in your relationship.

A word of advice here... not a single person is considered perfect, and therefore no relationship is going to be perfect. There will be times when the two of you are not in sync, which is okay. The key is to maintain balance, in the relationship itself. In other words, you need be on the same page as frequently as possible. If things are unbalanced, consequently you will become at odds even more so than you're in sync.

At this juncture, you should seriously consider terminating the relationship because the both of you are not a good fit, and it's highly unlikely to change.

As a result, when unwilling to break up the relationship that is quite unbalanced, and things can't be worked out, you will become at odds with the other person.

So before you focus on the myth that sex is the essence to making your love relationship the way you truly want it be, focus on these points instead:

1. In what way was your relationship built in the beginning? For instance, did you both share in many hobbies together? Outside of sex, what did you both do when spending time with each other? If you no longer do these things, why did it stop? Try to analyze the changes that took place in your relationship. When doing this you'll be much closer to coming up with a solution to making your relationship whole again


2. Have you asked your mate his/her thoughts on why the relationship is heading south? After all, the two of you are in this situation together, and share the same problem. So why not share in both your feelings, rather than complain to your buddies, or girlfriends -- why not just talk to your partner? Unless outsiders can read minds, no one can give you a better understanding than your partner

Make certain, however, that when asking your partner what s/he is thinking you give them the opportunity to express how they really feel in a 'safe' setting. What I want to make clear is try not to get upset and holler at them if they confess something about you that you don't want to hear.

If you do that, you're sending a clear message that they cannot be open with you and things will get ugly down the road. In the end, they will never turn to you again which is the cause of many relationships to fail.

Once your partner expressed how they feel about you, it's your turn. And the same rule applies, you should have the right to convey your feelings without being tried and convicted by your partner.

If the both of you have hit a tough snag in your relationship the temptation to reignite the fire in the bedroom and you will save the relationship may come to mind. However, statistically that's not the case. If you take heed to the tips and advice on sex to repair your relationship, no doubt you'll start to rekindle your relationship in a healthy manner.

Resources:

The Magic Of Making Up Review
Get Him Back Forever
Get My Ex Girlfriend Back
Save My Marriage Today
WebMD - Love Relationship